I'm behind on updating on here from my last appointment (by almost a week - gasp!).
I did finally get in on Thursday morning last week to see my OB. Although, he was not aware at all that I was there due to bleeding. He seemed pretty miffed when I asked him if he knew I was there for follow-up and not just a regular prenatal appointment because he didn’t know.
We went over everything that I experienced prior to the ER visit and while I what happened in the ER. In his (30 year) experience, he said bleeding at this stage is related to one of four reasons. His best judgment is that the bleeding was caused by the placenta growing and continuing to need to burrow into the uterine wall. As it's doing this in my case, it's most likely disrupting vessels and causing the bleeding. He also said that in his experience, he's probably only seen 2-5% lose the pregnancy after bleeding of this nature.
For the time being, I'm going to be watched closely and he wants me on limited "bed rest." Never had a "high risk" pregnancy before, but hopefully I won't stay one. In his words, if this is related to the burrowing of the placenta, I should "grow out of it." The limited bed rest currently only entails a few things - thankfully!! So, no lifting (even the tiny tornados), no exercising, basically just keep it mellow! Even though my OB didn't say anything regarding intercourse, my husband and I have decided to stay away from it for awhile (as much as that is driving my pregnant libido insane, I'm willing to agree if it keeps the babe safe).
I definitely felt a lot better after seeing my OB – I completely trust his experience and it helped calm a lot of my fears just to talk things out with him. I know I have no control over what is going to happen at this point, but it’s nice to know someone with a LOT of experience is keeping his eyes on me.
I go back in two weeks – Friday the 25th and will have a level 2 (hour long) ultrasound and then will see my OB afterwards. Hopefully this will either tell us what is causing the bleeding or it’ll show everything is good. I’ll be 16 weeks by then and am hopeful that we might get a shot at knowing the gender too! :)